It is not mine, neither yours nor anybody's else Duty.
No person is bound to any kind of duty or favor towards anyone. God has given choices to each one of us and we have a free will which one we want to choose. If I am in a problem and my friend has a solution than it is not his duty to help me or he is not bound to help me. It is his free will with which he choose either helping me or not.
It is your parents choice to give you an enriching life not their duty, It is your teachers choice to teach you honestly with love and understanding, It is your younger ones choice to respect you , It is your own choice to offer prayers with devotion or not and the same way its everyone's choice not any duty that they do.
A girl got married and her husband was the best person she could have imagined . He gave her respect , make her smile, gave her all the comforts in this world, loved her dearly and did everything a girl could dream of . She was not really happy about it but ONE day she felt extreme happiness and thought she was the luckiest person on this earth.
Do you know what changed her feelings ---- Simply a THOUGHT.
Earlier she used to think that all that her husband did for her was his duty . So she used to think OK he does all that for me but that is his duty so what's the big deal. And she took everything for granted.
But the other day she realized that her husband is not bound to any kind of duty( as no one of us is) but it is HIS FREE CHOICE OR WILL that he does all that for her . And it was that day she realized his importance, felt TRULY LOVED and grateful .
Nobody is bound to be good to you. Always remember this and then you will see how grateful and thankful you feel for every person who does even the smallest favor to you. Just remember if anybody gives you a smile to wear than it is not his duty to do so , just a free choice he has taken. Don't take anybody for granted , just don't think "Oh!! that was his duty " You are absolutely wrong in thinking that as No one is bound to a duty.
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2 comments:
Wow !! Thats such a nice thought. Its so wonderful how things change when the way we look at them changes. Keep feeling grateful and keep smiling :)
Thank you so much for showing a different way to look at our life.. After reading this, i am feeling so better n happy.. It has made a lot of difference.. Now, i feel very grateful for the the nice things people have done to me.. Its so true!! its nt dere duty.. :)
Keep writing such wondeful things.. So that it can make a difference in sumone's else life also as it did to me.. :)
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